We Have Aars http://wehaveaars.com You have your blog, we have Aars. Mon, 17 Aug 2015 16:46:35 +0000 en-US hourly 1 Sammy’s Vintage Car Party http://wehaveaars.com/sammys-vintage-car-party/ http://wehaveaars.com/sammys-vintage-car-party/#comments Sun, 16 Aug 2015 18:10:32 +0000 http://wehaveaars.com/?p=5905 My boy loves cars. Any all kinds of cars. Fire trucks, trash trucks, race cars, speedsters… Let’s just say he doesn’t discriminate when it comes to anything with wheels. So what else could I do, but throw my baby his … Continued

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My boy loves cars. Any all kinds of cars. Fire trucks, trash trucks, race cars, speedsters…

Let’s just say he doesn’t discriminate when it comes to anything with wheels.

So what else could I do, but throw my baby his very own car party???

I just loved how it all came together (which, quite frankly, was a miracle this time around).

My favorite parts might have been the vintage car photo wall (a collection I scored on Ebay) and the “Vroom Vroom” cake. I love simple cakes with unique toppers, if you haven’t already noticed. ;)

And oh, how I loved the cookies. I knew just what I wanted and asked Frances at Banana Bakery if she could make them. Boy, did she exceed my expectations! If you live in the DFW area, you must look her up. Simply amazing.

I love throwing parties, especially for my babies. I’m starting to think it’s my love language.

It was such a fun day celebrating my sweet Samuel (who I STILL can’t believe is two). He was on cloud nine the entire day. Which–of course–meant Mommy was, too.

I’ve included a couple of snaps from the day (thanks to Alica Skinner Photography for capturing most of them!) If you are curious about sources, just shoot me an email. Happy to answer what I can!

And now, it’s time to start planning Isaiah’s fifth birthday party. (Seriously, I can’t even talk about it.)

Happy birthday, sweet Samuel. As always, I hope you loved your party as much as I loved throwing it for you. Just seeing you grin from ear to ear, that’s all I need in this life. I love you, baby. And your happiness is my happiness. Here’s to being two.

Love, Mommy

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The Thing About Pottery http://wehaveaars.com/the-thing-about-pottery/ http://wehaveaars.com/the-thing-about-pottery/#comments Mon, 10 Aug 2015 14:26:19 +0000 http://wehaveaars.com/?p=5826 Life has been a little complicated around our house these past few months. Sure, it’s the end of Summer. The time of year when every Mom wants to pull her hair out, no matter how much she loves her kids. … Continued

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Life has been a little complicated around our house these past few months.

Sure, it’s the end of Summer. The time of year when every Mom wants to pull her hair out, no matter how much she loves her kids. The time of year when going certifiably insane actually sounds like the sane option.

But it’s more than that.

Life has just been hard. And I’m sure we’re not the only ones in that proverbial boat. Because if there’s one thing I’ve learned these past few years, it’s that life. is. hard.

Good. But hard.

There’s just no way around it, no matter how hard you try.

These past few weeks I’ve been focused on changing my morning schedule. Call it a desperate attempt to gain some much needed structure in my life (because that’s exactly what it is) but it’s been blessing me beyond measure.

Each morning I wake just as the sun begins to rise. I spend the first hour of my day in silence, watching the sky as it changes hues. I do my own form of meditation, read a passage from my Bible, practice gratitude and generally spend my time setting my intention for the day.

It’s not just changing my morning, or my day…it’s slowly changing me. Especially the silence.

If you live in a house with little ones, you know that silence is hard to come by.

For once, I get to listen. To the morning, to nature, to my soul, and to God.

This morning my mind kept wandering. I usually spend my time trying to focus my thoughts and energy. But today, the wandering felt healthy. As if I was being led…

I sat in my chair, wrapped up in my blanket (don’t laugh, it’s comforting) thinking about where life has been taking me. Wondering where it will be taking me. Feeling the oddest range of emotions (sadness, gratitude, fear, joy). Feeling, I’ll be honest, like life is a mess.

One, big, fat, complicated mess.

It’s exhausting trying so hard to make sense of it. Trying to know the plan, figure out the plan, or trust the plan. And for a type A personality, like mine, trying to clean up the mess. I honestly get antsy just thinking about it.

Then suddenly, this verse popped into my head. Which at the time, seemed a bit out of place…

“I am the clay, and you are the potter; we are all the work of your hand.” Isaiah 64:8

Over and over it repeated in my head.

“I am the clay, and you are the potter.”

“I am the clay, and you are the potter.”

I sat there, trying to connect the dots until it came to me.

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The thing about pottery is that it’s messy. Really messy. I don’t know if you’ve ever thrown a pot on a potter’s wheel (but we’ve all seen Ghost, right?) or molded real clay with your hands…but it’s virtually impossible to keep yourself clean.

You will get dirty.

There’s just no way around it, no matter how hard you try.

But to the potter that’s understood. It natural to make a mess. Because it’s all just a part of the process. And sometimes, the bigger the mess…the more beautiful the results.

The mess is essential to the masterpiece.

And aren’t our lives the same way?

Think about it. There’s no failure without the mess. There’s no learning without the mess. There’s no growth, or strength without the mess. And no beauty, without the mess.

I wonder what would happen if we stopped trying so hard to keep everything neat?

What if we embraced the mess? Sat with it for a while, and *gasp* enjoyed it like we did when we were kids?

What if we lived every day knowing that the mess is part of the plan? Heck, that it is the plan. And most importantly, that it’s not ours to make sense of?

We don’t need to know how to clean it all up.

It’s hard to remember, in the thick of it, that I’m in the middle of my own process. I’m becoming who I was meant to be. And it’s messy, that’s for sure.

But it’s supposed to be.

I’m a work in progress. And I’m proud of that. Because God makes beautiful things, doesn’t he?

Beautiful, messy, perfect things.

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Samuel: TWO http://wehaveaars.com/samuel-two/ http://wehaveaars.com/samuel-two/#comments Fri, 07 Aug 2015 19:38:09 +0000 http://wehaveaars.com/?p=5822 Dear Samuel, I started this letter a month ago. And somehow, I just couldn’t finish it. I realize now, that I’ve been in denial. And these letters…they mean so much to me. More than you know. They make everything real. … Continued

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Dear Samuel,

I started this letter a month ago. And somehow, I just couldn’t finish it.

I realize now, that I’ve been in denial.

And these letters…they mean so much to me. More than you know. They make everything real.

So I thought…maybe, just maybe, if I didn’t post my letter…I could keep my baby just a little bit longer.

Sadly, life doesn’t work that way. I just like to pretend it does.

But you’re officially two. And you have been for weeks.

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TWO.

I don’t know how it happened. Honestly, I blinked.

And I’m not really sure how to deal with it. You see, I remember what happened when your brother turned two. Time starting moving even faster. As if that’s even possible.

Before long he was talking up a storm, dressing himself, and learning how to use the potty.

I know it’s all coming…

But I’m not ready.

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You’re my baby. And even though I know you are growing up, there’s just something about you that keeps you, well, my baby. And I never want that to change.

Your Daddy and I can’t quite put our finger on it…

Is it your sweet baby curls? The way you mumble your words? Your coy little smile? Or the fact that you always want to be held?

Whatever it is, I’ll take it. That’s for sure.

You’re my “Sammy baby”. And you always will be.

Let me see, what I can I share about you?

You never have any shortage of affection. And your Momma takes full advantage of it. Every time I ask for a kiss, you come running. You always want to hold my hand. You’re the first one waiting at the door for Daddy, just to give the biggest hug. And you love to tell me you love me.

But it’s the way you say it that gets me. Beaming with pride.

You love anything with wheels.

You skip everywhere you go. You are always happy. And you love to make people laugh.

You can definitely hold your own with big brother. In fact, you love to tackle him. He might be in for it when you grow up (don’t tell him I said that).

You’re also a bit of a trouble-maker. You’ve got a wild streak, baby. A twinkle in your eye that spells M-I-S-C-H-I-E-F. I’m already worried about your teenage years.

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But I think my favorite thing about you, is your heart. You have such a sweet, thankful heart, Sammy.

I can’t do anything around here without you thanking me. For milk, for snacks, for handing you a toy. For giving you a bath. You name it.

You thank me, a thousand times a day. And it warms my heart.

I hope you always keep that spirit, baby. It’s an important one to have. Because life won’t always be easy…and when it’s not, thankfulness is what gets you through. I believe that with all my heart.

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Sammy, you’re special. I know you know that. I just want you to believe it, always.

I can’t wait to see what this next year will bring.

I love you, baby. More than all the stars. And don’t you ever forget it.

Love,

 Mommy

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Disney Movie Nights: Cars http://wehaveaars.com/disney-movie-nights-cars/ http://wehaveaars.com/disney-movie-nights-cars/#comments Mon, 15 Jun 2015 00:35:56 +0000 http://wehaveaars.com/?p=5770 So…fun fact: We’re Disney fanatics. Did you know that about us? For me, it goes waaaay back. I can actually remember tearing up as I walked into Disneyland for the very first time. I vowed right then and there that … Continued

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So…fun fact: We’re Disney fanatics.

Did you know that about us?

For me, it goes waaaay back.

I can actually remember tearing up as I walked into Disneyland for the very first time. I vowed right then and there that I would come back with my children (multiple times), and that Disney would be a huge part of my life.

I was six.

And sure enough, as I  grew, my Disney obsession grew right along with me. Just as it should be.

You know those commercials? Where the family of four is sitting on the couch with a bowl of popcorn…and the lights go down while the Disney movie starts to roll???

My life-long dream was to be THAT FAMILY.

I literally thought my heart might explode the first time I piled on the couch to watch a Disney movie with my boys. And I can’t say for sure, but I might have done an ugly cry.

Fast forward to today. It’s just as thrilling for me, every single time. It will NEVER get old.

And now that they are getting older, it’s the perfect time to add a little more FUN to it.

So we’re starting a new tradition called Disney Movie Nights.

Every Friday night is “family night” around our house. And about one Friday a month we do a movie night (most always Disney).

For our Disney Movie Nights, I pick the movie a few days ahead…then plan a simple dinner menu around it. Nothing fancy, just some fun themed food, and then we roll the movie. With cuddles. And pillows. On the couch.

Cue the sound of my heart beating.

This past week was CARS.

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Y’all. You would have thought the boys had died and gone to heaven. We had Flo’s Fruit…

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Mack’s Drive-In Popcorn…

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 Fillmore’s Organic Fuel…

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 Tow Mater’s Taters…

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 Lightning’s Diesel Dogs…

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And Luigi’s Tires for dessert…

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I mean, it was so easy to put together. It maybe took thirty minutes, total? And it was well worth it, for the looks on their faces alone.

The hardest part was stealing the boys’ CARS characters to decorate with.

And as soon as Isaiah saw the set up, he INSISTED on decorating the table with the rest of his CARS.

Melt. My. Heart.

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We’re already so excited about the next one!

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Theme Months! http://wehaveaars.com/theme-months-2/ http://wehaveaars.com/theme-months-2/#comments Thu, 04 Jun 2015 15:44:45 +0000 http://wehaveaars.com/?p=5771 They’re baaaaaaack! And we are so stinking excited to start up again. Life got a little crazy last Fall when Isaiah went to school. His school did their own theme months of sorts, so ours went by the wayside. Sammy … Continued

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They’re baaaaaaack!

And we are so stinking excited to start up again.

Life got a little crazy last Fall when Isaiah went to school. His school did their own theme months of sorts, so ours went by the wayside. Sammy was also pretty little at the time.

But now? It’s Summer, and that means it’s the perfect time to start them back up. Plus, Sammy’s the perfect age to participate!

If you are unfamiliar with our theme months, you can read this post and get caught up to speed.

But long story short?

I’m a girl that needs some structure. And I love being creative with my children….in a non-complicated, EASY way. Theme months allow me to do just that.

It’s a home run for all of us. Which leads me to….

SPORTS MONTH! (See what I did there?)

We kicked off our June with a sports-filled Mystery Box.

Just a short recap: At the beginning of each month, I put out a Mystery box (got ours here) filled with clues to what that month’s theme will be. It’s usually filled with items we already have on hand. Sometimes I add a few dollar store finds to get them excited.

When they boys wake up on the first day of the month, they run SCREAMING to the box. It’s pretty epic.

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From that point on, we do one themed activity every weekday (either an activity, craft, or themed meal).

It sounds like a lot, but it’s honestly SO EASY. For example, I didn’t  have anything planned today because I wasn’t feeling well yesterday (P.S. It’s okay to skip a day, life happens!). So on a whim, I said… “Load up the car! We’re going to the Athletic Store!”

And honestly, it was one of our favorite activities to date! We spent so much time wandering around the store, learning about every kind of sport. It was our very own sports crash course.

Other activities take a bit more planning, but I get to pick those days, to make sure it all doesn’t become “too much.”

We’re posting our list a few days late. For those who follow along, SORRY. I’ll always try to post at the first of the month.

But better late than never, right??? At least, that’s what I tell myself.

Anyway, here’s our list for SPORTS MONTH!

1. Play plastic cup golf (use golf clubs to shoot plastic golf balls into plastic cups set up all over the house).

2. Go to a Baseball Game!

3. Make Oreo Baseball Bites.

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4. Go to your local sports store and PLAY.

5. Make a basketball snack.

6. Go swimming.

7. Make football hand prints.

8. Make up your own pep Rally (complete with stuffed animals).

9. Play touch football.

10. Go to a little-league Baseball game!

11. Play toddler tennis.

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12. Play a game of basketball (indoor or outdoor).

13. Learn how to play volleyball.

14. Go bathtub fishing (or real fishing if you can!).

15. Go to your local outdoor track, and let the kids race! 

16. Learn how to play soccer.

17. Go go-cart racing!

18. Play mini-golf.

19. Learn about archery.

20. Go cheer on a 5K or marathon!

 

I also like to throw in a few creative activities of our own, so I’ll be posting those as we go (as time permits).

Until then…

Happy Sports Month, Mommas!

 

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Searching for the Sun http://wehaveaars.com/searching-for-the-sun/ http://wehaveaars.com/searching-for-the-sun/#comments Mon, 01 Jun 2015 02:20:02 +0000 http://wehaveaars.com/?p=5756 It’s been raining for weeks here in Dallas. No, months. In fact, I just read that in the month of May alone, we’ve had seventeen inches of rain. And boy, does it feel like it.  I’m not one for rain … Continued

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Searching For the Sun

It’s been raining for weeks here in Dallas. No, months.

In fact, I just read that in the month of May alone, we’ve had seventeen inches of rain.

And boy, does it feel like it. 

I’m not one for rain to begin with, but rain as a stay-at-home Mom? That’s a special kind of hell. Let me tell you.

There were days I thought I was going crazy. 

And not only has it rained outside, it’s also seemed to rain in my life. Everywhere it possibly could.

I’ve been trying to keep my head above water both literally and figuratively.

I met with a friend a while back, and as I told her about my past few weeks, I lamented about the rain. 

I told her that THIS RAIN, it was affecting me. And not only has it affected my day-to-day routines with the boys, but my mood as well. I wondered how much longer I could take it. I wondered if things would’ve been so rough if the sun had been shining. Probably not. Most definitely not. Maybe I needed a sunlamp. Isn’t that a thing? Are there vitamins for this? I just wish I could see the sun. I need it in my life, I need it to be “me”. I JUST NEED THE SUN, DANGIT!

And then she said it.

You know, Alli, it’s always there. Even if you can’t see it. 

It was one of those “well, crap” moments.

I knew she was right, the second I heard it. And in more ways than one. 

I sat there, surveying these last few weeks, replaying almost instantly the cloudy days in my mind. 

It was there. All along. 

In tickle fights, and family get-togethers. In laughter fits and “leftovers night”. In date night adventures and kissing smushy little cheeks. In learning first words, and jumping in muddy puddles. In wine after bedtime, and hot bubble bath escapes. 

And in little faces. Little smiles and little cries. Little hugs and little goodnights. 

But I was fixated. Fixated on the rain in my life. And because of that, I’d missed the sun…and so much more.

If only I’d been looking through the clouds…I’d have seen that it was there. Shining as brightly as ever.

I committed, in that moment, to do my best to search for the sun every day. And I’m proud to say I’ve seen it ever since.

Even when it’s raining.

In fact, that’s when I see it the most…

Because the harder you have to look, the more of it you see.

True Story.

Such an important lesson.

And one I’ll never forget. Come Rain…

Or shine.

 

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Because Life http://wehaveaars.com/because-life/ http://wehaveaars.com/because-life/#comments Thu, 09 Apr 2015 19:03:19 +0000 http://wehaveaars.com/?p=5702 I haven’t blogged in forever, well, because life. Even as I’m writing this, my toddler is destroying the pantry behind me. True story. So much is happening around here these days. So much to catch you all up on. And … Continued

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I haven’t blogged in forever, well, because life. Even as I’m writing this, my toddler is destroying the pantry behind me. True story.

So much is happening around here these days. So much to catch you all up on. And that same “stuff” is what keeps me from sitting down at the computer for days at a time.

WHO THE HECK MADE LIFE SO BUSY? I want to talk to them. Stat. Or at least, write a strongly worded letter.

Anyway, I thought I’d catch you up to speed in one all-or-nothing, random post. Here goes.

Easter came and went, and I didn’t write about it once. Which was hard on me.

I love holidays. And I love blogging about them. You’ve probably gathered that by now.

But sometimes, I just want to be IN the picture instead on the one taking it. Sometimes I want to do the craft WITH my kids instead of art directing it. And sometimes I want to dye Easter eggs like a four-year-old, instead of making the most creative egg possible.

Bottom line: Sometimes I just want to be a part of the moment. Sometimes I want to just DO LIFE instead of document it.

And that’s what I’ve been doing.

I made a conscious decision not to post any of our Easter crafts or activities this year. Will I regret it, for posterity sake? Jury’s still out. But for now, it was definitely the best decision for me.

This blogging world, it can be hard. You love. You do. You share. And pretty soon, you feel obligated to love, do, and share. And that’s not what I want for this little space of mine.

Along the way, I’ve vowed to post what feels right, when it feels right. And that’s the best this Momma can do right now. How does that saying go?

I will hold myself to a standard of grace, NOT PERFECTION.

So in that very spirit, here’s our last MONTH’S (no shame) recap.

We got a lot of snow.

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 And more snow.

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And this Momma had a meltdown of epic proportions. So I took a weekend away. Which is a whole ‘nother post in itself.

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St. Patrick’s Day came and went. So we celebrated.

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And hunted for gold.

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I worked on blogging for other sites. (Did you know that about me? Surprise!)

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We enjoyed a little Spring weather. Finally.

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We had Easter egg dinners. And Flashlight Easter Egg Hunts.

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The Easter Bunny came. Then baskets were destroyed.

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We dyed eggs. And some of us were grumpy about it. (Bad lighting, bad hair, don’t judge.)

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And then Easter morning.  (A shower does wonders, doesn’t it?)

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We celebrated at Grandma and Grandpa B’s. It was our last holiday in the house since they are moving this year. Yep, leaving my childhood home. I can’t deal. It’s a whole thing.

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And now we’re recovering from the weekend, with a candy-hangover and a house full of head colds. Thanks, church nursery, for all that you do. But most specifically…for strengthening our immune systems!

I hope you had a wonderful Easter weekend, wherever you are. Heck, I hope you had a wonderful month! I’ll try to do much better about posting. And in the meantime, if you want to keep up with our shenanigans on a daily basis…follow us on Instagram or Facebook.

Much love to you all!

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Meet Lucille (Our Vintage Camper) http://wehaveaars.com/meet-lucille-vintage-camper/ http://wehaveaars.com/meet-lucille-vintage-camper/#comments Fri, 27 Feb 2015 20:08:30 +0000 http://wehaveaars.com/?p=5676 I can’t believe it’s taken me this long to introduce you to our newest family member. Everyone…meet Lucille. In case you didn’t know (or you don’t follow me on Pinterest)…I’ve had a love for vintage campers ever since I can … Continued

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I can’t believe it’s taken me this long to introduce you to our newest family member.

Everyone…meet Lucille.

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In case you didn’t know (or you don’t follow me on Pinterest)…I’ve had a love for vintage campers ever since I can remember. Heck, I have a love of all things vintage. Period.

But I’m pretty sure I can trace my camper obsession back to this little gem. Tell me you’ve seen it…

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If you haven’t seen The Long, Long Trailer with Lucille Ball…let me tell you, you’re missing out. From the moment I saw it, I just knew I was meant to travel the country in my very own camper, collecting memories. And rocks. (Watch it, and you’ll get it.)

Then I met my adventurous husband. He, too, has a love for travel. And all things vintage. But most importantly…campers.

It was a match made in heaven.

We always knew we wanted to buy one, to renovate and call our own. And when we found this one on our recent trip to Colorado, it was too good to turn down.

We spotted Lucille from the side of the road in New Mexico, and promptly pulled over to inquire about her. We met Leroy, her owner, who gave us a tour and told us all about her.

We drove away that day, vowing to “think about it.” And when we couldn’t get her off our mind, we made the return trip to bring her home.

We’ve got big plans for little Lucille. I can’t wait to fix her up, and style her out. But most importantly, we have big plans for our little family. Adventures we can’t wait to share with our boys. Camping. Traveling the country. Seeing sights that they’d never see flying from here to there.

It’s a lifelong dream, come to fruition.

I just can’t wait for the memories to begin.

A few details for those who are interested:

She’s a 1958 Play-mor. She sleeps 2 adults and 2 kids (one full bed, and one fold out). She’s got a complete kitchen with a dining nook. No bathroom (which we don’t mind–less to clean).

Here are a few “before” pictures. She’s got a long way to go, but we’re confident we can handle it. Projects like this feed our souls.

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The biggest challenge? Definitely the water damage. It’s practically impossible to find a vintage trailer without water damage these days. So when we poked around and realized her’s was contained and fixable, we decided to take it on. Everything else is strictly cosmetic. The electrical is intact. The gas stove is intact. The ice box (yes, icebox!) is intact. We’ve got original hardware and lighting (be still my heart).

I mean…she makes my giddy, y’all.

Now, if only I could fast forward to the design stage. I’ve known what I want her to look like from the moment I saw her. But patience…I hear patience is a virtue (just one I don’t have).

Can’t wait to keep you updated as we go!

 

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To The Stay At Home Mom http://wehaveaars.com/to-the-stay-home-mom/ http://wehaveaars.com/to-the-stay-home-mom/#comments Thu, 19 Feb 2015 03:31:34 +0000 http://wehaveaars.com/?p=5300 I’ve been wanting to write you for quite some time, now. To apologize. You see, I used to be a working Mom. Working day in and day out. Trying to make ends meet. Trying to stay afloat. Trying to do … Continued

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To The Stay At Home Mom

I’ve been wanting to write you for quite some time, now. To apologize.

You see, I used to be a working Mom. Working day in and day out. Trying to make ends meet. Trying to stay afloat. Trying to do it all, with grace, style and sophistication–all the while feeling like I was falling short.

I was exhausted. Worn thin. And while I loved what I did, my spirit was breaking with every day that passed.

And I’m ashamed to admit it…but I would roll my eyes when I saw you coming.

I’d watch you drop your kids off at school, wearing your workout clothes. Headed to the gym, I would imagine. Probably Yoga or Pilates, with a shopping date to follow.

I’d see you standing in the school hallways, talking up a storm, as I rushed to my office to tackle weeks’ worth of work.

I’d watch you walk to your car with Starbucks in hand, jealous that you had time for a coffee run. I barely had enough time to take a bathroom break.

But I didn’t know…

I didn’t know you wore workout clothes, but never had time to workout.

I didn’t know that you rarely had any time for yourself at all.

I didn’t know that yoga pants were your uniform of choice, simply because they couldn’t be ruined by spit up, spills, or the occasional projectile vomit. I also didn’t know that you often stared longingly into your closet, wondering if you’d ever wear your “nice clothes” again.

I didn’t know that you lingered in the school hallways because you were lonely. Because you had no one to talk to, other than Elmo or DJ Lance.

And that Starbucks Mocha in your hand? I didn’t know that it was crucial to your existence–because you were running on little-to-no sleep. Up all night with two sick kids, with weeks worth of chores still waiting for you to tackle. And no sick days in sight.

Oh…and I didn’t know you didn’t have bathroom breaks, either.

I’m so sorry.

I didn’t know. But now I do.

Because I’m a Stay At Home Mom, two years in. Working day in and day out. Trying to make ends meet. Trying to stay afloat. Trying to do it all with grace, style, and sophistication–all the while feeling like I’m falling short.

I’m exhausted. Worn thin. And while I love what I do, my spirit breaks a little with every day that passes.

I didn’t know that, all this time, we were really just one and the same. That both of our paths are a rewarding, but difficult, existence.

We’re so often put into categories, aren’t we? Working or Non-Working.

But might I suggest that there’s only one?

We’re Moms–no matter the situation, no matter the place. And we’re doing the best that we can for ourselves, our children, and our families.

And maybe, just maybe, we’d all rest a little easier if we really believed it.

Maybe we’d stop comparing our workloads.

Maybe we’d judge a little less, and love a little more.

I didn’t know. But now I do.

There is no greener grass. There is no easier path. And there is no right or wrong.

There’s just us–working day in and day out. Trying to make ends meet. Trying to stay afloat.

And even though we all feel like we are falling short, we’re showing up anyway…and doing our very BEST.

Because we’re Moms.

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Indoor Beach Ball Games http://wehaveaars.com/indoor-beach-ball-games/ http://wehaveaars.com/indoor-beach-ball-games/#comments Mon, 16 Feb 2015 01:54:54 +0000 http://wehaveaars.com/?p=5658 Isaiah and Samuel were busy showing their mad beach ball skills over at Modern Parents Messy Kids this weekend. We came up with several indoor beach ball games to play on those dreaded days when you’re stuck inside. And I … Continued

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Isaiah and Samuel were busy showing their mad beach ball skills over at Modern Parents Messy Kids this weekend.

We came up with several indoor beach ball games to play on those dreaded days when you’re stuck inside. And I have to say, we had such a BLAST doing this post. Much more fun than I ever expected, really. We laughed for hours playing these silly, simple games. And pretty much every day since, Isaiah’s asked to play them again.

Bounce on over and check it out. Especially “blanket ball.” That was boys’ favorite, by far.

Hope your week is off to a fantastic start!

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