We Have Aars http://wehaveaars.com You have your blog, we have Aars. Wed, 13 Aug 2014 04:15:42 +0000 en-US hourly 1 The “Perfect” Vacation http://wehaveaars.com/perfect-vacation/ http://wehaveaars.com/perfect-vacation/#comments Wed, 13 Aug 2014 02:56:50 +0000 http://wehaveaars.com/?p=5199 We’re back from Colorado. And we’ve recovered. Mostly. We spent the past week in beautiful Estes Park, with wonderful and cherished friends. It couldn’t have been more amazing. And if you know anything about our trip, you might think I … Continued

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We’re back from Colorado. And we’ve recovered.

Mostly.

We spent the past week in beautiful Estes Park, with wonderful and cherished friends. It couldn’t have been more amazing.

And if you know anything about our trip, you might think I was crazy to say that.

We won’t talk about the “how” (because it might be the parenting FAIL of the century) but during our drive up, Sammy took about a four foot tumble–landing head first onto asphalt. We stopped right where we were and called our doctor, who advised us to stay put and watch him closely.

We did just that, in a nearby Barnes and Noble (which turned out to be the perfect place). And as soon as we were out of the woods for any real danger (Praise God) we got back on the road.

We arrived in Estes Park around 11pm (our fourteen hour road trip turned eighteen) and put the kids to bed. Then at 12:45pm sharp, I woke up to the most horrifying scream. You know the kind…where you leap straight out of bed, lump in your throat, running to get to your child before your eyes have even adjusted?

Poor Isaiah was sick. And since this was his first “stomach bug” experience, he was terrified. We did our best to calm him, but the episodes went on well into the morning.

Then I caught his bug, and well…by day 4 of our 7 day vacation, after visiting the Urgent Care in town, things finally started to normalize.

And if that wasn’t enough, I broke my toe on the last day there. No, not hiking. Kicking my suitcase while packing. (I think I should make up a better story, don’t you? How’s this: I got in a kickboxing fight. With a bear. )

With such an “eventful” trip…it would be easy to think we felt cheated. Right?

But the thing is, it truly was amazing.

Was our vacation perfect? No. But in my humble opinion, it was pretty darn close.

We had a terrifying accident on the way up, but were blessed with great doctors to see us through. The Barnes and Noble staff let us camp out on their floor, and turned the other cheek as our kids ripped apart the Children’s section (still sorry about that, B&N). The kindness they displayed to a Mother in tears was simply overwhelming.

When we were up all night with Isaiah, we woke up to dear friends taking care of us. They cooked us breakfast and offered to watch Samuel. They were the epitome of grace, even after we exposed their kids to our sickness (and us Mama Bears know how frustrating that is…on vacation no less).

Sure, we were pretty much house-bound for the first three days, but the views were spectacular. I mean, if you are going to be sick, by all means…do it near Rocky Mountain National Park!

And I broke my toe, yes. But on the very last night. No hiking in sight, just a two day car-ride ahead of us, and the perfect opportunity to “ice and elevate.”

Upon our return to Dallas, I learned of a family who was tragically killed on their way home from their own family vacation–not far from where we had been. A fatigued driver hit them head on. And they’ve been on my mind ever since.

So how was our vacation? Let me tell you. It was pretty amazing. We saw some beautiful sights, and spent wonderful time with friends. But more than that? My family is well, my foot is mending, and we are all home safe and sound. And we are blessed beyond measure. Rich in friendship and love.

Who could ask for anything more.

Thanks for the memories, Colorado. It honestly couldn’t have been any closer to “perfect.”

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Gone Fishing http://wehaveaars.com/gone-fishing/ http://wehaveaars.com/gone-fishing/#comments Tue, 05 Aug 2014 22:12:31 +0000 http://wehaveaars.com/?p=5196 Actually…gone hiking, climbing, sleeping, laughing, relaxing, and so much more. I’ll be away from the blog for a while, to enjoy some beautiful views with my little family (and some wonderful friends). I’ve been posting our adventures on Instagram (@alliaars) … Continued

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Actually…gone hiking, climbing, sleeping, laughing, relaxing, and so much more.

I’ll be away from the blog for a while, to enjoy some beautiful views with my little family (and some wonderful friends). I’ve been posting our adventures on Instagram (@alliaars) so you can keep up with us there if you like.

God is working on this Momma’s heart this week, in strange and exciting ways. So many thoughts that I can’t wait to share when I return.

Hope you are having a wonderful week, wherever you are!

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Sammy’s Sky Party http://wehaveaars.com/sammys-sky-party/ http://wehaveaars.com/sammys-sky-party/#comments Mon, 28 Jul 2014 15:32:28 +0000 http://wehaveaars.com/?p=5165 So the posts have been lacking around here, all because we’ve been busy getting ready for THIS PARTY. It feels real now. We officially have a one-year-old. It always takes the party to prove it. ;) I’ve known since Sammy … Continued

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So the posts have been lacking around here, all because we’ve been busy getting ready for THIS PARTY.

It feels real now. We officially have a one-year-old. It always takes the party to prove it. ;)

I’ve known since Sammy was born that I wanted to throw him a “Sky Party.”

He’s my rainbow baby. And that is something so very special to me. So I wanted to honor the God-given gift that he is, and celebrate with an ode to the Heavens.

We had rainbows, clouds, planes, hot air balloons…you name it. The sky was the limit. (See what I did there?)

Here’s a few pics from the day…

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The ribbon bunting was my subtle nod to the rainbow–tutorial coming later this week. It’s literally the easiest tutorial ever, but still worth sharing.

And the cake. Oh, the cake. It just might be my favorite one I’ve ever made. The toppers just melt my heart. Each one made with love for my little man. I squealed out loud when I finished it. Ask Michael.

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And how amazing are these cookies?! A friend of mine made them. There is NO WAY I could ever tackle anything that daunting. I keep telling her she needs to start a business. I’m serious, Alice!

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One year pictures covering the mantel, courtesy of Alicia Skinner Photography.

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And ribbon bunting on our double door wreaths. I made these wreaths almost a year ago, and I still adore them. You can change the decor to match the season (or party, in this case). The How-To is here.

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The favors were little clothespin airplanes, complete with hand-drawn instructions.

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And what’s a party without a photo-booth, right?! Samuel had his very own Hot Air Balloon photo station.

We simply bought a large roll of white craft paper (4 feet wide), sketched out the balloon, and placed a large basket (World Market) in front of it. Big props (get it? I’m on a roll!) to Michael for helping me put this together. I was such a hit. And the pictures turned out just precious.

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It was such a perfect day. I truly loved every minute of celebrating my Sammy baby.

Now…time to start planning his 2nd. ;)

We love you, Samuel. We love you more than all the stars. And we hope you loved your party half as much as we loved throwing it for you.

Love,

Mommy and Daddy

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This. http://wehaveaars.com/this/ http://wehaveaars.com/this/#comments Wed, 23 Jul 2014 17:50:32 +0000 http://wehaveaars.com/?p=5162 This. This is why I can’t get to any of my planned posts lately. This is my every day. This is what gets me up early, and sends me to bed late. This is what is what makes my heart … Continued

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This.

This is why I can’t get to any of my planned posts lately.

This is my every day.

This is what gets me up early, and sends me to bed late.

This is what is what makes my heart sing and ache, all at the same time.

This is my life, my love, my struggle.

All summed up in a few pictures.

If you have yet to see this photography collection by Ken Heyman, you are missing out.

Motherhood, at it’s finest. And the best possible visual description of this beautifully chaotic season of life.

Happy Wednesday, Mammas.

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Sammy Baby http://wehaveaars.com/sammy-baby/ http://wehaveaars.com/sammy-baby/#comments Mon, 21 Jul 2014 02:10:54 +0000 http://wehaveaars.com/?p=5150 I just couldn’t wait to share my Sammy Baby’s one-year pics. Alicia Skinner Photography for the win! She always seems to capture my babies’ personalities just perfectly. If you are in the Dallas area, definitely give her a shout. I … Continued

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I just couldn’t wait to share my Sammy Baby’s one-year pics. Alicia Skinner Photography for the win!

She always seems to capture my babies’ personalities just perfectly. If you are in the Dallas area, definitely give her a shout.

I had so many favorites, it was next to impossible to narrow it down.

So here’s my top 25…

Just kidding.

Thank you, Alicia. Your photos are magic, as always.

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And an outtake to grow on…

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Our Insta-Week http://wehaveaars.com/insta-week/ http://wehaveaars.com/insta-week/#comments Thu, 17 Jul 2014 14:28:02 +0000 http://wehaveaars.com/?p=5141 It’s been a week. And it’s not even over yet. Ever have one of those? Someone please tell me I’m not the only one. Because I have them often. I’m waist deep in party prep for Samuel’s first birthday party … Continued

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It’s been a week. And it’s not even over yet. Ever have one of those? Someone please tell me I’m not the only one. Because I have them often.

I’m waist deep in party prep for Samuel’s first birthday party this weekend. I’m usually on top of these things, making and creating months in advance. But this time? I left it all for the last week. I feel like I’m cramming for the big test.

I got this, I thought. As long as this week runs smoothly, I can get everything done right on schedule. 

Then the boys got sick. Then I got sick. Nothing drastic, just Summer colds. But it’s been enough to weigh us down and halt all productivity.

One of the worst parts of Stay-At-Home-Mommyhood is the lack of sick days, if you ask me. And even worse: working HARDER on your sick days, cause everyone around you is sick.

Our week has been filled with pajamas, pajamas, and more pajamas. It’s been movie-watching, party-planning, nap-taking, and tylenol-dosing.

And cuddles. It’s been filled with cuddles. One of the very BEST parts of Stay-At-Home-Mommyhood, if you ask me. Especially on the sick days.

We don’t have much to post about, because this has been our life. But we will share our Insta-week.

Are y’all on Instagram? PLEASE find me if you are (@alliaars). It is by far my favorite means of social media. I’m actually slightly addicted to it. I just love sharing snapshots of our life, and seeing snapshots of yours. I love that level of connection.

And quite frankly, I just love rooting other Mommies on…all over the world. We’re in this thing together, sick days or not, so why not experience it all together as well? I think it’s so important to what we do. We need to build each other up, support one another, and love each other from afar.

I’ll stop now. Because there’s babies to be fed and party work to do.

But not without our Insta-week. Let’s see…we’ve got Sammy riding his new firetruck, my DIY ribbon bunting, Isaiah watching old Goofy cartoons, us at the Lionel Richie concert (Hello?! Is it me you’re looking for???), and Sammy baby’s new favorite face. (Such the jokester, that one. I think he’s going to be class clown.)

Enjoy! And love to you all!

 

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Chutes and Ladders http://wehaveaars.com/chutes-ladders/ http://wehaveaars.com/chutes-ladders/#comments Mon, 14 Jul 2014 01:31:05 +0000 http://wehaveaars.com/?p=5138 We’ve been playing a lot of board games at our house lately. I’ve always been a fan of board games (LOVE me a game night) but we’ve yet to really play as a family–probably because most of them are “3 … Continued

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We’ve been playing a lot of board games at our house lately.

I’ve always been a fan of board games (LOVE me a game night) but we’ve yet to really play as a family–probably because most of them are “3 and up.”

But since Isaiah is 3.5 now, I decided it was time to introduce him.

We started with the basics…Candy Land, Go Fish, Memory, etc. And tonight, we broke out the “Chutes and Ladders.”

Now, brace yourself. But I never played Chutes and Ladders growing up. (Insert gasp here)

So this one was new to both of us.

Nevertheless, we forged on…learning the rules together (which turned out to take all of one minute).

And just in case you are unfamiliar with the game, like me…

The purpose is to move your player from the first space to the hundredth space–climbing ladders whenever you can in order to move ahead, and avoiding the “chutes” that take you backwards.

So we start to play, and pretty quickly Isaiah hits a ladder. Loads of fun. And then he hits a chute.

I’m bracing myself for a minor meltdown when he realizes he has to move all the way back to the beginning. But instead, he seems thrilled.

I’m thinking…he must not quite grasp this game yet.

We spin again. And sure enough, he hits another chute.

“This is fun!” he says.

So…it might take him a few times to get it, I think.

We spin again.

Another chute.

“Wheeeeeeeee!” he squeals.

Time for the teaching moment.

“Isaiah, honey. You don’t want to go down the chutes. You want to climb up the ladders. You want to get to the very top. You see?”

And without missing a beat, my little one says…

“But Mommy. That’s boring. But the falling, that’s fun. You can always get back up. You can always keep going. But you see more spaces when you fall.”

Out of the mouths of babes, I tell you. Out of the mouths of babes.

Sometimes I look back at my “falls” in life and see nothing but heartbreak, and precious time lost.  But when I look a little closer, my baby’s words ring so true.

Without those falls, life would have been so boring. Without those chutes taking me “backwards”…I wouldn’t be where I am today.  I wouldn’t be WHO I am today. And I most definitely wouldn’t have seen as many “spaces.”

To be honest, I’ve felt a little like I’m “falling” lately. Life is changing so quickly, and it seems I have no control over any of it. It’s scary.

But after tonight, I got a little twinge of excitement. Because sweet Isaiah reminded me that the more I fall, the more I learn. The more I grow. And the more I become who I was meant to be.

Thank you, sweet boy. Thank you.

And Lord, please grant me the ability to teach this boy just half as much as he teaches me.

If it’s possible…

 

 

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Samuel: ONE http://wehaveaars.com/samuel-one/ http://wehaveaars.com/samuel-one/#comments Tue, 08 Jul 2014 17:13:47 +0000 http://wehaveaars.com/?p=5110 Dear Samuel, Well…here we are, sweet boy. It’s been a whole year since you graced our lives with your presence. You came into this world with a bang, surprising us all four weeks early. I think I cried the entire … Continued

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Dear Samuel,

Well…here we are, sweet boy.

It’s been a whole year since you graced our lives with your presence. You came into this world with a bang, surprising us all four weeks early.

I think I cried the entire way to the hospital. In fact, I think I cried the entire time I was in labor. Not because of the pain (your labor was actually quite painless, unlike your brother’s). But because I was so scared to lose you.

Your Daddy and I aren’t strangers to loss. Or the fear of loss. Our two previous pregnancies can attest to that.

So I know the pain. And I was terrified to relive it.

As soon as you were in my arms, I thanked God for you. You were here, you were safe, and you were mine.

My rainbow baby.

The next hour or so was a blur. A crowded room, post-labor contractions, and a nurse swooping in to take you from me. I didn’t know we’d spend the next three weeks apart from one another. I didn’t know I was saying goodbye to my newborn.

We left the hospital without you, but visited you every day. Being with you was like air to me. We couldn’t hold you much, but we read you stories and kissed your brow as often as they’d let us.

I couldn’t wait to get you home.

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And the very day we did, I was re-admitted to the hospital without you. Unable to even receive your visits.

It would be another week until we were finally together.

I guess the reason I’m recapping is because I want you to know…

You were hard fought, baby. So very hard fought.

And in the weirdest way, it was such a gift.

I still struggle. Wondering about that time I lost. That magical first month gone…and I didn’t even know you.

I can never get that time back.

But oh…once I had you. It was like we were light years ahead.

We had a rough start, but we fought hard to be together.  And because of that bond, we’ve never taken a day or night for granted. Not even the sleepless ones.

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Sammy, this past year with you has been heaven.

Sure, we had our challenges. But the joy you’ve brought us outweighs it all.

I love to close my eyes and remember you…

The way you you grunted like and old man. How you squeaked like a cat when you cried. Your famous Mick Jagger impression.

The wrinkles on your forehead. Your wishy-washiness (I want the pacifier. I don’t. I want the swaddle. I don’t).

Your larger than life eyes, and your constant inquisitive look.

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 Your wealth of personality, and your love for big brother.

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 And how much fun you are to love. You make it so very easy, Samuel.

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You’re a firecracker, sweet boy. Everything about you.

Thank you, from the bottom of my heart, for bringing your unique joy into our lives. For teaching us we are stronger than we ever thought we were. And that nothing worth having comes easy.

Thank you for always making us laugh, keeping us on our toes, and for being a living example of God’s redemptive love…even after heartbreak.

You. Are. Amazing. And we love you…you guessed it…more than all the stars.

Happy birthday, baby.

Love always,

Mommy

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Happy Fourth of J’Alive http://wehaveaars.com/happy-fourth-jalive/ http://wehaveaars.com/happy-fourth-jalive/#comments Mon, 07 Jul 2014 02:43:44 +0000 http://wehaveaars.com/?p=5099 That’s what sweet Isaiah said, all weekend long. It melted my heart. And sometimes, it was just…”Happy Fourth of Alive.” Well said, dear boy. We are so thankful to be alive and living in such an amazing country. We try … Continued

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That’s what sweet Isaiah said, all weekend long. It melted my heart. And sometimes, it was just…”Happy Fourth of Alive.”

Well said, dear boy.

We are so thankful to be alive and living in such an amazing country. We try to pass that thankfulness on to our boys, even if they are still a tad too young to get it.

Isaiah knows it’s something pretty special, though–since he has yet to see his Mommy make it through our national anthem without crying.

We had a wonderful Fourth down on the farm. Did you keep up with us on Instagram? I go a little Insta-crazy whenever we are there.

We drove tractors, set off fireworks, planted a tree, and of course…jumped on the bed.

I have to say, my favorite part of these trips has become sharing a bed with Isaiah. We’re pretty strict about sleeping in our own beds at home (because if we give an inch he’ll take a mile) so we never really get the opportunity. But oh my word for memories…

(Wait for it)

He insists on falling asleep while holding my hand.

I mean. SERIOUSLY.

These are the fleeting moments we live for. Am I right?!

He actually shares my pillow, and holds my hand all night long. I, on the other hand, get no sleep whatsoever because my heart is too busy LEAPING out of my chest.

But it’s worth it. He’s worth it.

Here’s a few pics from our lovely weekend. We hope you had a wonderful holiday!

 

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Summer Fun Month http://wehaveaars.com/summer-fun-month/ http://wehaveaars.com/summer-fun-month/#comments Tue, 01 Jul 2014 22:48:02 +0000 http://wehaveaars.com/?p=5093 I’m a little late on this post. Again. And just a quick note: I think I am going to stop apologizing for being late. I’ve got little ones. It is what it is. Good talk. And now…It’s Summer Fun Month! … Continued

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I’m a little late on this post. Again. And just a quick note:

I think I am going to stop apologizing for being late. I’ve got little ones. It is what it is.

Good talk.

And now…It’s Summer Fun Month! We did this theme last July, and it was one of my fave’s because of the wiggle room that comes with it (which we moms SO desperately need about a month in to Summer).

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The point is to get outside as often as you can, and have fun. The simpler the better. And just about anything goes.

If you need some ideas, here’s our list for the month of July. Join us! We’ll be hashtagging on Instagram (#SummerFunMonth) along the way, as always.

Happy Summer!

  1. Wash your car together (or do a kids’ car wash)
  2. Have a Lemonade stand for a good cause
  3. Make larger than life bubbles
  4. It’s the FOURTH! Light sparklers (or make these)
  5. Go to neighborhood splash park (Here’s a list if you are in Dallas)
  6. Have a water balloon fight
  7. Find a new ice cream shop
  8. Make your own popsicles (these are our FAVE)
  9. Go on a picnic dinner
  10. Play in the sprinklers
  11. Make Firefly pets (we’ll be posting these ahead of time)
  12. Paint with spray bottles
  13. Bake cookies in your car
  14. Make root beer floats
  15. Have a backyard movie night
  16. Go to the Farmers Market
  17. Make Smores
  18. Go night swimming
  19. Find a hiking trail
  20. Go to a Baseball Game
  21. Have a Watermelon seed spitting contest
  22. Have outside story time
  23. It’s National Hot Dog Day! Go and get one!
  24. Go stargazing
  25. Get snow cones
  26. Make your own ice cream
  27. Go camping in the backyard (or camp in the house!)
  28. Cool off and go see a movie
  29. Go to the city pool
  30. Play mini-golf
  31. Have a shaving cream fight

 

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